Frequently Asked Questions

What is sexology?
Sexology is the scientific study of human sexuality — covering sexual interests, behaviour, function, and relationships. It draws from multiple fields including medicine, psychology, biology, sociology, anthropology, and criminology. The study of sexology explores everything from sexual development and relationship dynamics to sexual health and behaviours.

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What is a sexologist?
A sexologist is a professional who specialises in the field of human sexuality. They may work as a sex therapist, sexuality educator, or researcher — or often a combination of these roles. Sexologists provide expert support and guidance on a wide range of sexual health topics, helping people better understand themselves and their relationships.

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What happens in a “sex therapy” session?
At your first appointment, you’ll meet with your sexologist in a private, professional, and confidential setting. Your sexologist will first explain our privacy and confidentiality policy, then spend time getting to know you and your concerns.

You’ll be asked about your sexual history and experiences, and if attending as a couple, each partner will have the opportunity to share individually. This helps your sexologist understand your situation and what you hope to achieve.

Sessions focus on identifying the areas you’d like to improve or explore, and working together to create a practical, supportive plan moving forward.

Sex therapy is not just talking — you may be offered ‘homework’ exercises to try in your own time, designed to help build confidence, improve communication, and address your specific concerns. You’ll never be asked to undertake any sexual activities during a session.

Your sexologist also acts as an educator, offering accurate, relevant information about anatomy, physical responses, and emotional wellbeing related to your sexual health.

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How do I know if sex therapy is right for me?
If you’ve been experiencing a sexual concern that isn’t improving on its own, sex therapy may be helpful. Early support often leads to faster, longer-lasting results.

Common reasons people seek sex therapy include:

• Low or mismatched sexual desire

• Difficulty achieving or maintaining erections

• Premature ejaculation

• Trouble reaching orgasm

• Loss of sexual intimacy in a relationship

• Anxiety, pain, or discomfort during sex

• Feeling disconnected or lacking confidence about sex

• Shame, guilt, or embarrassment about sexual experiences

In some cases, a medical evaluation is also helpful. With your permission, your sexologist can work alongside your doctor if needed to support a holistic approach to your care.

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Do you offer relationship counselling too?
Yes — we do. Many sexual health concerns arise within the context of a relationship. At NSW Sexology Services, we can help you explore broader relationship dynamics such as communication, trust, intimacy, and emotional connection alongside your sexual health goals.

If your concerns extend beyond the bedroom, we’re here to support those areas too.

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Should I come alone or bring my partner?
That decision is entirely up to you. Some clients prefer to attend an initial session on their own, while others bring their partner from the start. In some cases, each partner may have individual sessions before coming together for couples work.

At NSW Sexology Services, we respect your preferences and offer flexible, tailored support — whether you come alone, together, or a combination of both.